You’ve heard the saying “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach,” well I’m here to tell you, that’s wrong!
You don’t get to a guy’s heart by feeding; you get to it by sending him nudes.
Now, this isn’t entirely true and a fool-proof way of getting a guy to love you, but it definitely makes you super special to him.
First off, I wouldn’t say this applies to a random guy; you have to be in a relationship with him first. He already likes you, maybe even loves you, but you’ll definitely solidify your place in his heart with booty pics.
Because who doesn’t love booty pics?
But seriously, guys love receiving nude selfies of their girl when they’re not physically with you. Sexting and sharing nude selfies is a way to keep close intimacy and is good for your relationship. It makes sense that seeing nude selfies of the girl you’re in a relationship with would make your heart skip a beat, reinforcing how lucky he might feel to be with you.
Nude selfies are also a great way to remind them of you and get them thinking about you. If your man is busy throughout the day with work or other responsibilities, a random nude will go a long way in bringing up his mood. He’ll open it up in the middle of his day and think about how much he can’t wait to see you, and when you can’t keep someone off your mind, you know they’ve made their way into your heart. And if you’re into sharing with the public, you can always post your nudes on sites like xpost and even make a living do it!
It’s also a nice reminder that you are, in fact, into them and sexually attracted to them. We all get insecure sometimes, even males, including your boyfriend, do too. It’s nice to feel wanted, but not a lot of guys will express that and end up not asking you for the reassurance that they need. Nudes are a great way in helping their ego and self esteem when it comes to sex appeal.
To know that your partner is thinking of you and desiring you would make anyone feel good, and I’m sure you would want him to do the same for you.
Lastly, a big reason why nudes are the way to a guy’s heart is because of the level of trust it takes to send them in the first place. When you send him a nude, you’re implying “I trust you enough to send you this and to keep it safe, but also want to make you feel good.” Establishing this type of trust in a relationship will place you in a new level of intimacy and just increase his love for you.